On the threshold of the 20s of the digital age, online dating has long been no surprise. Badoo, Tinder, Instagram and hundreds of other online sites help thousands of people every day to find their soul mates, not only for an evening or night, but also to create a family. If five years ago, having heard the story of dating on the Internet with a happy ending, I would have raised my eyebrows in bewilderment and did not believe it, now I can give several examples of my friends who have found family happiness on the Internet.
Yes, on dating sites there are a huge number of inadequate, freaks and sexually horny, but also successful guys around thirty, oddly enough, also come across. So, today in https://relations-blog.com/ lets have a look at the main rules.
1. Don’t fall in love until the personal meeting
The Internet is a good platform for getting to know a person who in ordinary life under random circumstances would not be possible to meet, but further communication should be personal. Avoid internet hacks. Very often a strong person in the epistolary genre does not represent anything in life. As in a person who has lost his sight, hearing and other sensory organs are greatly exacerbated, so the pen shark sometimes has no personal communication skill at all, or even just smells bad from the mouth. To avoid disappointment, do not enter into lengthy correspondence. It’s a waste of time. Insist on a personal meeting.
2. Leave the phone
If a potential candidate for the hand and heart has passed the first round, do not be afraid to leave your phone. Now phone numbers have lost their value, buying a new SIM card is not a problem at all. I advise you to have a separate number that you will use for online dating. If your new acquaintance turns out to be not too adequate, but too intrusive, feel free to throw the SIM card into the trash. The correspondence must be followed by a telephone conversation. You will hear the voice of the interlocutor, you will understand how he holds himself, what he says. The conversation should last at least five minutes so that you have time to analyze the degree of adequacy of the gentleman and decide whether to agree to a meeting.
3. Take the initiative
If, upon personal acquaintance, the women’s initiative is still on the list of controversial topics, then on the Internet this has long ceased to be a taboo. Among hundreds of pages and various profiles, a young man may simply not notice, not identify you. It is perfectly normal to be the first to be identified if a man likes you. It is not necessary to write him a tirade in a personal, you can just like his photo or leave an intriguing comment. Here is one more great post to read on this topic. He has to take the second step.
4. Don’t forget about photos
Photos are very important. The rule “men love with their eyes” has remained unchanged for more than a millennium. Choose 5-7 good photos and do not forget to change them periodically. Sometimes photos that we ourselves seem attractive repel men. Alternate images and analyze the reaction. Two tips:
Don’t be too much open in your photos if you want to attract a man for more than one evening. Even if it seems to you that there is nothing in half-naked photos, since you are young, beautiful and are not going to the monastery yet, believe me, men see this as a sign of easy accessibility and nothing more.
Smile. A smile is attractive. According to research by British scientists, a smiling woman seems to men much more attractive to men than a mysterious and fatal one.
5. Complete the questionnaire correctly
In the “About me” column in the vast majority of questionnaires, girls write that they want a smart, kind male about a meter ninety with a good sense of humor and a thick wallet. Try to stand out and write what you are ready to offer to a man who is lucky enough to become your companion. The main marketing technique is to be useful. Create your USP (Unique Selling Proposition) and describe it in as much detail as possible. Men will be happy to meet a girl who is ready not only to take, but also to give. So there will be no end to letters with proposals for a meeting, and you yourself will already have to choose who to go on a date with.