How did people make new acquaintances back in the old days? This often happened with the help of professional matchmakers or relatives. How does this occur nowadays? Today, most often – people get to know each other through the Internet, without any assistance.
For sure, international dating sites for marriage (as well as local dating apps) seem to be comfortable. But, on the other hand, there, you don’t have anyone who would share something important about the potential partner. So, it is easier to hide the truth or even impersonate someone else…
For this reason, sometimes, when a person falls in love online – many surprises could await him in the future. For example, it suddenly turns out that the loved one is married and has four children. Or, she is not the one she claims to be. Unfortunately, all these details become clear only when the relationship has already gone too far… But no panic: there is a way to escape the probable stress. You just need to get the objective idea of the genuine personality of the lady you are chatting with! Let’s find out what you can do.
What kind of information is crucial to know?
Here is the list of matters partners should know about each other before entering into a serious relationship. Make sure you are aware of these things, especially when starting a family:
- your lady’s age,
- her obligations, including financial ones, towards other people (parents, children, ex-spouses),
- marital status (single, married, divorced, widowed),
- the presence of children,
- her religion,
- sexual preferences and expectations,
- her current financial situation (income, debts, real estate),
- attitude towards each other’s nationality or race,
- attitude towards family and marital loyalty,
- skeletons in the closet.
But how can you find it all out?
It is clear that with the help of the Internet, obtaining information is not a particular problem in 2022. Thanks to the details posted on the Web, you can find out the name, surname, and even a nickname of a person you’ve got to know online! The date and place where she was born, the city she lives in, her email address, education level, place of work and current position, marital status, and more. In addition, you can draw some conclusions about her character and personal qualities.
If the name and surname are known – then you can enter them in the search box of Google, Yahoo, etc. You will receive links to her accounts in blogs and online communities, just like the comments that she left. There you can find out more detailed information about your lady. Through her personal pages on social networks (Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn), most likely, you will be able to see her circle of contacts. It includes photos with loved ones, by the way. That’s also how you can figure out whether she has an ongoing relationship with someone else.
These search methods work for most people if they do not restrict access to information about themselves, of course. Otherwise – you will have to be a little more creative in your research. For example, you could ask your friend to follow your girl and see what happens.
Maybe someone will say that it’s disgusting to google your online girlfriend. These people think you shouldn’t be so suspicious – you have to trust others! Without any doubt, you need to live with an open heart, but if you are destined to be fooled – don’t let it happen! We all require the sad life lessons to learn from – and it’s absolutely okay. But it never hurts to have the knowledge of how to prevent yourself from making mistakes. Don’t you think so?