How to Navigate Being Single Right Now

We’re all struggling with the quarantine right now, so if you feel like you’re the only one – don’t worry, you’re not alone. However, if you’ve had to endure lockdown by yourself so far, you might be feeling extra lonely.

Single people are going to feel a bit lonelier and more depressed at this time, and if you’re one of them, you might also be feeling frustrated at the lack of human touch and connection. With this in mind, let’s talk about how to navigate being single right now during a global pandemic.

1.     Keep Yourself Occupied

If those thoughts of being single keep creeping back into your mind, try to keep yourself as busy as possible. While you might not feel like you’ve got a lot to do at this time, it’s actually a great opportunity to stay busy and productive and achieve some personal goals.

If you’ve lost your job, don’t wallow in this disappointment for too long. If you’ve got a great business idea, for example, map out your business plan, and start drawing up sketches for prototypes. This is a great time to put being single to the back of your mind and focus instead on what you can achieve.

2.     Keep up with Your Sexual Health

If you have been single for a while now and were single before lockdown began, there’s a good chance that you were out there enjoying yourself. You might have even been getting regular checkups at the doctors to stay on top of your sexual health.

However, right now, it’s pretty difficult to make an appointment and go see the doctor. If you’re missing your regular checkups, don’t worry – you can still get tested right in the comfort of your living room. There is an at-home Chlamydia test that is discreet and provides same-day testing that you can send away for.

3.     Consider a Dating App

You might be one of the last people in the world to try a dating app, and you’ve been putting off trying one for as long as possible. However, with the lockdown restricting our movements for the foreseeable future, now could be the time to see what’s out there and if you can’t connect with someone right now.

Trying a dating app is always a great opportunity to land a date in person with someone, once the quarantine has been lifted. Either way, get online and continue to enjoy the single life from the comfort of your home.

4.     Don’t Go Back to the Ex

One thing that you might be tempted to do right now is text your ex. However, if that relationship was particularly toxic, then this is the last thing you need to do. It might feel like you haven’t got any other option right now, but it’s better to stay single in lockdown than entertain anything that can reopen old wounds.

Remember to make this decision with your head, not your heart. Whether you’re lonely or not, you’re better off without that toxic relationship.

It’s not easy navigating the world as a single person at the best of times, let alone in the middle of a lockdown. However, with tips like these, you can make it a lot more manageable.

Lakisha Davis

Lakisha Davis is a 20-year-old business studies student who enjoys watching tv shows, stealing candy from babies, and listening to the radio. She is creative and friendly, but can also be very boring and a bit selfish.

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