Many women experience anxiety and fear when contemplating moving in with their partner. Dating coach Sami Wunder suggests that most of her high-achieving clients experience some version of this, worrying that they may be moving too fast. After all, moving in represents change. When a person is in a relationship that is already working well, they may be reluctant to change anything.
Nevertheless, moving in together is a natural part of relationship progression, with living together helping to build intimacy. While Sami Wunder does not recommend clients moving in with their partners prior to engagement if their goal is marriage, she embraces moving in together as a healthy progression of a romantic relationship.
Living together is a completely different dynamic to just dating or being in a long-term relationship but living apart. When adjusting to a new situation, it is normal for doubt and fears to creep in. Sami Wunder points out that when co-habiting, it is crucial for women to remain the same person their partner first fell in love with, practicing mindfulness and self-awareness as the intimacy deepens and continuing to invest in their own self-development.
Behaviors Sami Wunder warns women to guard against when moving in together include mothering their partner, correcting him and chasing him, highlighting the need to keep the passion and intimacy alive. Rather, she advises creating the space for their man to continue to pursue them, even when living in the same house. By maintaining their own hobbies, friendships, activities, and separate lives, women maintain their independence, keeping themselves entertained when their partner is busy. Sami explains that by keeping a few simple things in mind women avoid “messing up” their relationship, giving it the best possible chance of progressing to engagement and marriage, if that is what they desire.
Sami Wunder’s Soulmates Forever self-study program is available for download on her website. Providing more than eight hours of audio training and worksheets, this rave-reviewed program has helped thousands of women to enhance the intimacy and love they experience, with the course covering all aspects of attraction, intimacy, and relationships. Hailed as the best pre-marital and post-marital counselling program available to date, the course covers an array of different topics, including connection, communication, discussing children, money and goals, and how to maintain attraction and passion. Soulmates Forever helps women to continue to feel the same butterflies in their stomach as when they started dating their partner, helping them to feel 100% happy, loved, and secure in their relationship.
Soulmates Forever helps students to instinctively know what is going on with their man, enabling and empowering them to take proactive steps to bring the relationship back on track rather than merely “guessing and stressing” about what their partner is thinking. An advanced signature program for women in committed relationships, Soulmates Forever provides the inside scoop on what makes a relationship work in the long-term, providing inside tips to help marriages and relationships stay fun, passionate, and alive and setting the stage for ever-increasing love and intimacy.
Sami Wunder is a leading international dating and relationship expert who specializes in working with high-achieving women. As the CEO of a highly successful seven-figure business, Sami Wunder serves a global clientele of more than 80,000 followers across 55 nations, with her clients ranging from CEOs, bankers, doctors, lawyers, and entrepreneurs to UK television stars and Hollywood celebrities. Sami Wunder has helped more than 18,000 clients since 2016, helping to establish her as a leading authority on dating and relationships. Highly sought after by the media, she has been featured in numerous publications, including Forbes, Time, and Business Insider, as well as the Daily Mail, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, The Metro and many more. Sami Wunder has also made guest appearances on several television shows, including Channel 5’s The Wright Stuff.
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